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I asked you nicely, but it wasn't enough.

Wed Jul 1, 2009, 9:10 AM
  • Mood: Homicidal
  • Listening to: Megadeath
Okay so I found out that Brandon still has pictures of me and him as a couple up on his myspace and I told him in these exact words just why I wanted them down. "I am dating someone right now and it makes me uncomfortable knowing that those pics of us are still up, no offence, but would you please take them down?" and he said "I do take offence and no I wont take them down."
and I tried being nice about it and asking him, again and again, I say
"Please just take down the pictures." and he says "O, did I strike a nerve?"
Then I got pissed, hacked his myspace and took them off myself. Well he just put the pics right back up and I COULD hack it again and delete it but I'm not that mean so I let it go. Then he got all pissed and said "Say your sorry." I said no because I have nothing to be sorry for, he was the one who was refusing to take them down, also I did no damage to his myspace, didn't read his mail or change anything except those pics.
and he says "Do you want me to make you sorry?" and I said how? He doesn't want to tell me but I don't believe in "or else" so finally he replies "I would find a way onto your myspace and Deviantart, then I would make all your and my friends hate you, I would hack your lap top and make it unusable, then I would get to Jordan, I can't tell you more for obvious reasons, I would also come up with other things along the way."
So I told him that if he did any of that I would file a police report and that his text saying all that would be perfect, undeniable proof it was him.
So he didn't.
Eventually I argued with him and he took down the pictures.
That's all I wanted. I was very polite and nice about it in the beginning, but asking him nicely wasn't working. I told him in these exact words just why I wanted them down. "I am dating someone right now and it makes me uncomfortable knowing that those pics of us are still up, no offence, but would you please take them down?"
Ask, Tell, Make. Thats my motto. Be polite and ask a few times first, when that doesn't work, tell them point blank, when that doesn't work, make them. It's the only way.

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:iconakatsukimirage:
Lol, you go girl. You handled it better than I would have.

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The Goths and the Vamps go round and round,
Round and round,
Round and round!
The Goths and the Vamps go round and round,
Aaaaalll niiiiiiight looooong!

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:iconeldersilverclaw:
The sexist windbag didn't even spell my name right. he says this:
"goodbye Jessica I'm sorry it had to come to this. all over two stupid pictures. why do you have to be so confrontational and have the last words. why couldnt you see what i was concerned about and just talk about it like you did before our final conversation. I've taken them down now but you cant force your way onto people and not expect them to force their way onto you. i cant handle a girl controlling me. i took them down but at the cost of our friendship i hope it was worth it. if you had just been idk less forceful they would have come down right away. i didn't even want them up anymore i just forgot about them. why did you have to hack into my myspace to get rid of them. i just wanted an apology and i would have taken them back down instead of riposting them. if you listening all you have to say is that your sorry and you wont try to force things on me and ill take you back as my friend."
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"I can't handle a girl controlling me"
How sexist!

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"If I had a hat, it would be very tall and very simple and very braith and blithe and bonny."
:iconakatsukimirage:
Oh my gosh, what a spoiled prat!

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The Goths and the Vamps go round and round,
Round and round,
Round and round!
The Goths and the Vamps go round and round,
Aaaaalll niiiiiiight looooong!

Composed by A-M
or AkatsukiMirage
:iconeldersilverclaw:
Indeed isn't he! He thinks I'm going to ask his forgiveness or something!

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"If I had a hat, it would be very tall and very simple and very braith and blithe and bonny."
:iconakatsukimirage:
*eye roll* Uh, no. He was in the wrong. You did what you did. And he got what he deserved.

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The Goths and the Vamps go round and round,
Round and round,
Round and round!
The Goths and the Vamps go round and round,
Aaaaalll niiiiiiight looooong!

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or AkatsukiMirage
:iconeldersilverclaw:
Thanks, I'm glad SOMEONE agrees.

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"If I had a hat, it would be very tall and very simple and very braith and blithe and bonny."
:iconakatsukimirage:
lol, yeah. I know how it feels to have an annoying ass think he's always right and that it's your fault and that YOU have to apologize to HIM. He wasn't my boyfriend nor my ex, we almost a were a thing, but I broke it off because he had no respect for me at ALL.

--
The Goths and the Vamps go round and round,
Round and round,
Round and round!
The Goths and the Vamps go round and round,
Aaaaalll niiiiiiight looooong!

Composed by A-M
or AkatsukiMirage
:iconeldersilverclaw:
Yeah guys are pompous egotistical windbags. I guess they don't realize they aren't going to get laid by anyone who isn't a bitchy skank with no respect for herself.
My boyfriend is awesome, his mom is a total feminist so he has grown up in the most unsexist house ever. We have been dating for months and never had a single disagreement about anything because we respect each others political and religious differences and don't try to change each other. We both believe that when you go into a relationship you don't go into it expecting to change your partner, but accept the things you like and don't like about them and love them anyways.

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"If I had a hat, it would be very tall and very simple and very braith and blithe and bonny."
:iconakatsukimirage:
lol, that is a very good relationship. I pray that it continues on and blossoms into a extremely strong one.

--
The Goths and the Vamps go round and round,
Round and round,
Round and round!
The Goths and the Vamps go round and round,
Aaaaalll niiiiiiight looooong!

Composed by A-M
or AkatsukiMirage
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